Monday, November 11, 2013

Why? Because.

Opinions are formed: Neither stolen nor borrowed, both ideally and grammatically.

When we are kids, we are taught things. Out of the inherent curiosity in a human being, we ask why. In an ideal world, that question should be answered. However, mostly it isn't. So we hear children parrot opinions, and proudly assert that they are true because:
  • Mommy said it is.
  • Daddy told me.  
  • Miss told the class.

Cute.When a grown up does the some, not so much. 

Unfortunately, most kids are either told not to ask too many questions or fed the universal, "because that is what it is...because I am telling you..." You can either be curious or believe that, the latter seems the popular choice. Growing up is not limited to age or size. Growing up should ideally entail the ability to hone your judgment and form your opinions. I very specifically say, form. They either form out of your own experiences, or from thought you put into forming them. If it is borne out of a discussion with someone else, it should first be filtered through your intellect and judgment, and eventually, if satisfied, be added to your list of opinions. Without that process, you have just borrowed or stolen someone else’s opinion and repeated it.

I am generally a very opinionated person, and always have a lot to say about them, ref: blog and my incessant talking. Leads to many arguments at times too.. Oh well. Even so, I am very particular about saying; I don’t know when I don’t. Or, I have no clue, when I haven’t. I may sound a fool saying that, but I find it better off than being made a fool by pretending otherwise.

The quality to be able to answer the why following an assertion is rare, and personally very much appreciated. You might choose not to answer, for whatever reasons, but one shouldn't fail to.

Ignorance when admitted is knowledge, when pointed out, stupidity.

2 comments:

  1. You Are capable to make your opinions , everybody have diffrerent different opinions about something you can not ignore someone else opinions ,i agrre you can make your own , you can be wrong also some time ,sometime other can be right because you make your opinions based on your knowledge what you have seen ,learnt some time it can be wrong may be truth is hidden from you ,but i truely believe a humen being have power to discover the truth and to make a right opininon about anything ,god made us capable to find the truth in the fact which is hidden ,I belive my life my opinions but make it with high knowledge on thing on which you are making your opinions

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  2. Forming opinion is an absolute art...sometimes people wont like ur brush, sometimes they wont like ur colors...n sometimes even canvas for that matter. But at the end of the day, you are still an Artist.

    PS: nicely composed!! :)

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